P.D.A. - A public display of affection is the physical demonstration of affection for another person while in the view of others.
Well, that's my opinion from the outside. I don't know how it feels on the inside because I would personally never do it with my boyfriend, but it may be nice for the ones doing it. They might feel loved and I don't know their stories so it might be a once in a month kind of thing or something along those lines...ANYWAYS, I can say this because I have been a victim to PDA for the longest time. By whom, you may ask. Well none other than my friends. I can also say this on behalf of many of my other friends who have to sit through this as well, but it is VERY uncomfortable. I mean they cuddle unnecessarily and are constantly holding hands like they can't possibly be separated or they're die. On top of that, seeing pictures of them kissing is THE WORST!! I just want to gouge my eyes out, but once again, I don't really know. It might just sound like I'm jealous, but I don't think I'd want someone to slobber all over my face while in public or feel a bulge against my...yeaa....
So yea! PDA is not my thing, but is it yours? Lemme know and I'm sorry if you're someone who does PDA and are offended. I'm just stating my opinion and appologize if I've offended you in any way, but please keep the PDA to a minimum and get a room if you want to do anything =). Thank you.
Oh, so here's a side story of something that really annoys me regarding couples. PARTIES! It really bugs me when the host of the party automatically assumes that if you invite someone in a relationship, that the other has to be there. Or when someone invites theird gf/bf to a party when their not the host and the host doesn't know their gf/bf. That REALLY bugs me. I mean seriously? The person has NOTHING to do with the party and it's not like they can't be away from their lover for like a few hours or a day or something. It's not a day to be spent with your lover. It's a day for the host or for friends to get together or whatever the celebration is about. What gets to me the most is if the host is paying and they've got to pay for extra bodies who they don't know or aren't close with. Like really, you're NOT attached at the hips. You can be apart.
So, that's my rant for the day, although I already have the topic for the next blog in my mind already. So follow along and give me your comments, questions, and concerns! Maybe I'll make a blog on them ;D!
P.S. I just made this account because my REALLY close friend made an account and wants to keep one going for as long as he can. I've also always liked writing about absolutely anything, so this is my first blog after having LiveJournal and not using it much. Although I didn't use it much, I can say that I really liked one thing that they had, which is the emotion and the current music stuff, so even though there isn't a option to do that, I'm going to write that in every one of my journals at the end. If you'd like, you can write how you feel or what you're listening to as your read my blog! That'd be great. So enjoy =)!!
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P.S. I just made this account because my REALLY close friend made an account and wants to keep one going for as long as he can and I've always liked writing about absolutely anything so this is my first blog after having LiveJournal and not using it much.
ReplyDeleteWow.. longest run-on sentence in life.
Anyway, I think that people who usually PDA don't really care if they're in public. I know that what I like to do, I like to do away from view. Who wants to stared at while enjoying yourself with a significant other? Honestly? I think it's an intrusion on their own privacy, relating to their own sloth-like personalities. Whatever. I don't really care about PDA. Cuddling is cute - just as long as it isn't like... rape. Head on shoulder ^_^